When they are in a relationship, the relationship revolves around them. There is no “give and take” in the relationship because they always take from you. Intelligence is something that everybody has, but everybody has it in different amounts.
I bet they won’t notice that you’re bored listening to their incessant talking, too. Because they’re all about appearances, it’s no wonder that they will also be about the labels and big brands.
They don’t want to look cheap so they will not wear anything unless it has a famous label on it.
They look like on the outside and not what is in people’s hearts. They only want to be with you because you have something to contribute and give them. This is about self-intelligence which includes social contract, manners, grace, gratitude, and others.
For them, good is only good if they get something out of it. Friendships, relationships, whatever, it is all based on “What can you do for me? According to an article in Medium, “people who are shallow may in fact be quite well-informed and possess a depth of knowledge…however, they don’t fully utilize the information they’ve obtained”.
These researchers found that, across countries and cultures, sincere individuals are more likely to be fair-minded, non-greedy, and modest; whereas deceptive people are more likely to be exploitative, greedy, and arrogant.
They’ve described as follows: “The Sincerity scale assesses a tendency to be genuine in interpersonal relations.
But before that, let’s discuss how I’m defining a “superficial person”.
My analysis to follow is based on Lee and Ashton’s research on the personality factor or super-trait they call Honest-Humility.
Some chase money, others chase power or fame but all of these lack substance.