In my experience, that's when all the dirty laundry comes out. My first off-online date was all sorts of awkward, but it's gotten better.Keep in mind, there's a lot more to relationships than intimacy, even if it is a significant part. I'm basically in the same boat: a virgin with zero interest in hookups. You need to be willing to go the extra step in meeting people - be that initiating contact, or carrying the converstaion.I figured the topic would come up anyways at some point in a relationship, so I might as well be up front about it.
There may be times where I feel sexually frustrated, but I'm pretty happy that things have ended up as they have, because now I'm going to be able to share an experience with someone I deeply care about and limit the likelihood of regret.
To be honest, if I were a girl and you, I'd keep it quiet, because you're going to get the dickheads messaging and manipulating you so they can be the "first to pop your cherry".
It's not dishonest, it's just not telling the Your virginity is no one's business but your own. If you don't want someone to know, don't tell them.
You don't have to disclose everything about yourself on OKC, just don't lie about yourself.
(I realize I'm getting ahead of myself here, but these are the concerns I have.)I was a virgin on OKC.
In answering the questions that better match people (I forgot what they're called) the question of virginity or the number of sexual partners came up and I answered it honestly.
Good luck and I hope you have a positive experience!
I (23M) was a virgin without OKC, and started using it a few years after I turned in my v card (~19 y/o).
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Your story is so similar to mine, and I ended up finding an amazing guy that I've been dating for more than two years.