To move forward, it is important that you continue to talk to your husband and try to understand the extent of his difficulties and what the underlying issues are for him.
At the heart of the problem of online “infidelity” is the fact that it is usually done in secret and without the partner’s knowledge – even with infrequent access this secrecy can reduce the intimacy between the couple and can be a first step on the road to bigger betrayals.
Take some time out together You can also take action at home to improve your marriage on a daily basis.
For example you can prioritise a daily talking time with your husband when you share how each of you are doing.
Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.
Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.
Yes, that is a real life example of the perils one faces when dating app matches slide into your DMs.
As such, disillusionment in this swipe-addicted new culture is rife.
They will work on a desktop, a laptop or a mobile device such as a mobile phone or tablet.
We have been around since 23 March 2000 and, with your help, we hope to be around long into the future.
My husband is a great father and has always been very hands-on with the children who really love him and I don’t want to end up separated.
AWith people spending more and more time online, accessing pornography and adult websites can be a big problem in modern marriages.
When I challenged him, he was embarrassed and then defensive saying it was just harmless flirting and that he had not gone over any line.