"The women," he says, "were more interested in men their own age or older." As for the men, he says: "I guess it could be nice not to hang around a ditz with no knowledge of music or something like that." "We have strong 'shoulds' on ways of partnering up," Kathryn Elliott, Ph D, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Louisiana at Lafayette, explains to Web MD. We pathologize anything that isn't within those shoulds." The key to making older women/younger man relationships work, Elliott says, is to match what she calls voltages."Choose someone who is your voltage type -- has the same level of intensity about life.
With Amazon reviews like “Where has this been all my life?
” the book has proven to strike a chord with readers.
She works out a lot by her own admission (and judging by her track record in this department) and often meets partners at the gym, not the bars.
Winter tells Web MD that she and her co-author interviewed more than 200 couples for their book. Such men (at least the ones interested in older women) are stable and mature. They want a woman who knows who she is." Still, even Winter admits, this may not be for everyone.
Published in 2005, the book helps men and women identify the early warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
His “don’t settle for the first one to come along” mentality is a lesson for all – made obvious by Amazon reviews like “excellent” and “a must read.” Social Clout: 21,452 followers, 82 likes URL: Bragging Rights: Helping those injured by love Not to be confused with the Saturday Night Live comedian, Meyers is a licensed clinical psychologist and relationship expert who helps people stop going from one bad relationship to another.
Since its original publication in 1992, the book has sold more than 50 million copies in 50 different languages.
Social Clout: 17,876 likes, 6,408 followers URL: Bragging Rights: Simply the truth Published in 2004, “He’s Just Not That Into You” is a self-help book of sorts aimed at single women.
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