She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.
but if you start making these mistakes and she loses interest (and stops replying), then it was all for nothing.
The first thing to learn here is how to take your foot “off the brakes” regarding texting. Mistake #1 – Trying to build attraction over text – One of the most important things to remember is that it’s better to build attraction in person when you’re face to face, not over text.
Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.
If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.
This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.
The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
You still have to capture her attention and get her out on a date.
In the meantime, there’s still that gap between when you first meet her and when you see her next.
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…