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I realize now that I stayed in it way too long and should have left a long time ago.

I've always heard about this rubber-band theory where when a guy starts to get distant, you let him go and don't push- yada yada.

I dated a guy for a while then we broke up, because apparently distance is a huge problem.

then about 7 months ago we started talking again and he’s been all flirty and then just recently he disappeared off the face of the earth.

So how can you tell if a guy is just normally distancing himself early on (is that normal) or does he have commitment issues? Go get a big trashcan, take all those theories, toss them in that trashcan and light them on fire.

I just don't want to make the same mistakes in my next relationship- I'm pretty sure I have a tendency to spark with unavailable men and really want to keep myself open. Now, that your head is clear from all that garbage, ask yourself a simple question - how do you want to be treated? If he is not treating you like you want to be treated, dump him and don't even consider starting to make up excuses for why he is not treating you well based on all those bs theories.

My boyfriend has recently broken up with me because “he wants to be alone, doesnt want to be in a relationship with me” but it’s weird and strange because it came about so quickly, and there are a lot of interesting side lines to it that don’t make sense. I suppose you have to ask yourself whether he’s been going through anything that is exogenous to your relationship. You’re 15 and already know that you’re blunt and unapologetic about it. I don’t blog as much as I used to, but your post motivated me so maybe i’ll start again:) Thanks for getting in touch.

Which of course leaves me wondering if he’s currently in the stretch of the band, just waiting to ping back. hey iam a 15 year old girl and i am as out spoken and i blunt as you i really like your blog and i hope this is something you like doing and im glaed i am not the only one that is not blunt. Best – Bluntlysaid This makes SO MUCH SENSE its unbelievable.

I must spend a while finding outt more or working out more.

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The writing here was clearly on the wall the first time you found out he'd been dumping women, because he simply "lost interest" as if they were entertainment centers who stopped working.

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