It's the person who has it, and what they do with it. It's good for getting someone to LIKE you, but not to LOVE you. If a woman dislikes you because your penis is small, she's probably not worth your time anyway. If you aren’t seeking a relationship, I’m not wasting my time. As I’ve grown older and more experienced, though, I’ve learned to cut through the BS.
It’s okay if you’re uncertain, just be sure to communicate clearly with me.
You need to be willing to have the “what are we doing” talk.
I’m super interesting (and awesome) as it is; having game-like mystery is unnecessary. While we’re still getting to know each other, it’s quite possible that it won’t work out, but there’s a better chance if we’re both communicating our wants and feelings.
In the wise words of Mila Kunis, “I think playing coy is silly. If a man gets turned off, he’s the wrong man.” I’m not the type of gal who will withhold parts of myself to try to be more interesting to you. I don’t need to pretend to be anything more or less. If you aren’t looking for a relationship because you’re planning on moving out of the country next year, say that from the start.
However, if me waiting for you or wondering why the hell you canceled again becomes a habit, though, I’m out. I’m not expecting you to own a house and have a perfect career, but I want a partner who cares about their long-term life.
In whatever way it looks like for you, I expect you to be working towards your dreams and financially stable in doing so.