And there’s something so primitive about a man’s natural odour. If only there were some kind of test, or a 'tell', so you could easily divine the dregs from the demigods. Why you think you want him: A man who cleans up after himself is the rarest of beasts; to find one is surely the holy grail of dating. As far as you’re concerned, you’ll be eating, chatting and maybe worrying internally about how much wine you can allow yourself on a school night. He’s never got a hair out of place and his flat is a monument to order and hygiene.
“So having weighed up all the evidence and considering the fact that I was quite drunk at the time and I didn’t technically put it all the way in, do you think my ex was right to say that it was cheating? “I really like that you feel comfortable with your natural smell. Imagine all those gleaming surfaces you can have sex on! But transport that remark to the run-up to a first date, and I run for the hills, stomach churning with a dread normally reserved for statements like “The PIN you have entered is incorrect” or “And next on ITV2, a four-hour Katie Price reality show retrospective”. There are so many good guys out there -- you almost need two hands to count them. The sand in your sandwiches, the rain on your parade.
I mean, you know, deodorants are really bad for the ozone layer anyway, aren’t they? Why you really don’t want him: If he’s that fastidious about himself and his environs, think how much control he’ll exert over you and yours. The world is full of men you shouldn't date, for every kind of reason.
It really is that simple but it gets overlooked far too often.
When a man respects a woman he has the ability to love and care for her the way she needs. In some cases this respect is exactly what separates one woman from the rest.
A man who is truly into you wants to make you happy, and will put in the effort to put a smile on your face. Right It doesn’t necessarily have to be something specific he did at the moment, his mere presence can give you a boost of positive energy and make your day better.
He should have the ability to uplift you and help steer you onto a more positive path.
We all need to grow as individuals and maybe the guy you meet hasn’t reached a point where he is truly ready to be the man he is going to be. Be patient, and remember that focusing on building a friendship can help set the stage for you and Mr.
So ultimately no matter how many of these signs you see or don’t see, trust your intuition.
The six signs I mentioned apply across the board so I will get into the spiritual aspect more in a different post.