It's not a big deal when my dad is 50 and my mom is 45, but it's kind of weird to think about when you realize that when my mom was being born my dad was in kindergarten.17-14 is kind of a weird disparity because the 14 year old is definitely not mature enough to be in a relationship with someone who in theory "knows the ropes".
Her high school problems and general living situation just didn't seem important anymore.
We had other problems as well, and I realized we didn't have much in common and we were coasting off of our physical relationship, but the difference in life lessons was definitely something that alienated me from her.
Good logic, so a 19/16 couple is also fine, and so is an 18/15 couple? That would be more my concern, it's not just about is it legal to bang her or not, like would there actually be any substance to the relationship? If you dated 16/17 when you were 20 , then yes I find that terribly weird.
From a strictly sexual point of view, if the age of consent is 17, crack on, but from building a relationship, I could see it becoming problematic, at least until she's 18.
-17 is the legal age here- So I turned 20 end of last month, she's 17 since the start or January.
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